being bi sexual for me is no longer a
curiosity but a fact of life, its what i am.
what i would like to know tho is why most
guys also think that being bi means easy ??
xx
I think you may need to do more research
Cathy. Children who are abused are no more
likely to be promiscuous than any other
child, or have problems with sexual
boundaries.
Then your research is either flawed, out of
date or based purely on statistics and not
grounded in real life.
It is a very dangerous stereotype to be
placing on these already damaged children,
and one that can follow through into adult
life damaging them even further.
wow this threads getting interesting
however, i would like to say , i've never
been abused as a kid and dont really think
i'm that promiscous either and am certainly
monogomous when in any kind of relationship.
like i said before it makes me mad when
straight people have the stupid notion that
all bi's are easy....rant over x
i have a sense of self and always considered
my self straight ...but been told cos ive
slept with more than 1 woman and i wudnt rule
sleepin with another 1 that im bi
louboo, does it really matter what other
people think or what other people label you
as.
The most important thing is that you as an
individual are happy and comfortable with
your sexuality. If you try to conform to
anothers ideals it will leave you empty and
confused.
There is no right or wrong, just who we are
as people,
I don't think there is any specific number of
women. Our sexuality is something we can know
with or without experimenting excessively or
even much at all and only those who analyse
themselves and their preference acknowledge
this.
I myself am bi-sexual. I have had no sexual
experience with either gender but have been
aware of my feelings towards women for at
least five years.
It's quite normal for women to be attracted
to one another. But sometimes people feel
something extra for the same gender...and
when you acknowledge this and grow mature
enough to accept these stronger feelings,
it's something you just know in your mind and
heart.
Some people need experimenting, others don't.
It varies for everyone and is fine either
way. Some take longer to discover themselves
than others but the important thing is to be
honest with yourself. Even if you lie to
everyone else, don't lie to yourself or hide
your thoughts and feelings.
True that is, but as humans I think we should
have enough sense to acknowledge the fact our
species is obviously highly developed
psycologically and otherwise in comparison to
other species and our predeccessors. In other
words we don't simply comply to basic nature
and have other capabilities both natural and
otherwise.
dooby....if u prefer men n like the odd woman
now n agen i dnt see y u shud say ur
bi.....in my eyes ur straight but wudnt say
no......cos if u was bi u wudnt prefer one to
te other.....anyway it shudnt matter if ur
str8, bi, lesbian, or gay.....as long as u
know wt u like n wnt then dnt bother labellin
yaself hun
. 
xx 
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