...because I find that I get treated with
alot of wariness - whenever I make a pass at
a woman I like, the typical response for me
is 'I bet you say that to all the girls' or
words to that effect.
So what I want to know ladies is, how do you
know when you're dealing with a smooth talker
(and yes I'll admit I will use the advice I
am given in somewhat sinister and
machiavellian attempts to get women to let
their guards down but HEY! I'll be good when
they do, promise!)
I have talked bout this with some of my girl
friends b4,when a woman says "I bet you say
that 2 all the ladies" most of the time she
is looking for you to say, "No of course i
dont!!!" lol, she wants to feel special.It is
not always the case tho but i do know that
some chicks say it for that reason.lol.
Thats a shame, because I was just about to
ask did you choose your username 'because
youre worth it'? - but that would have just
been cheesy wouldnt it?
well all women are different. but most women
like it if before you get really up close and
personal just say some simple things like
hello and what are you up to and are you ok.
when you have made a bit of smalltalk and she
seeme to like you you can talk more and ask
her for a drink. but most importantly be
yourself and have fun!
seriously though, general banter and a bit of
humour goes along way with no crude or smutty
remarks and looking at thier face when your
talking to them.....but i prefer silence
a woman wants to feel she is the only 1 for
you. dont eye up other women and dont eye up
women and say 'cor,phwoar, oh baby, why dont
you look like that lol
Depends on what you say...if it's something
sincere and not some blatantly obvious
chat-up line, I agree with amylou, unless the
girl is just bad at accepting compliments and
feels a bit awkward like I do sometimes
I believe the only way to deal with that
question is to watch your back and try to be
assertive in activities. surely it would make
you more natural. Yes natural people, thats
what they want.
I think most woman like honesty to feel safe
with the personn there with to feel loved
cared for to receve then little unexpected
gifts abnd to be made to feel like there the
only lady in the world
to me, a cheesy line means no honesty or
genuineness, which to me equals 'i just want
to get into your knickers, i'm not actually
interested in you as a person!'
Just be yourself!
And if you get nervous and mess-up, don't
worry - you are more likely to get sympathy
than the mickey taken - and if you do get the
mickey taken, then it shows immaturity, so
you're well shot!!
And what if the person I am, is the sort of
guy who likes to pay a girl a compliment, for
no other reason than I like something about
her and want her to know it?'
I'm gonna have to agree with what Dusty said,
I think alot of the time the girls just cant
believe what they're hearing, or are just
fishing
Well Mister Rojo and guy who wrote this
thread (sorry cant remember that far
back)....I was trying to be honest....all
these others saying that they want this and
that ....but the truth is we want you guys to
act according to our moods and if you dont do
it the right way we'll be upset and if you
ask us how to act we will still be upset
cause you didnt know how to act...
If you pay someone a compliment, and you
really are being yourself, then it should be
ok - if a woman responds sarcastically, you
can either respond or walk away.
At the end of the day, if you are being
sincere, then you are just approaching the
wrong people.
And you have probably saved yourself a lot of
bother by them being the way they are.
They have done YOU a favour....
Well I find if I guy says to me: nice
legs..what time do they open... it really
attracts me to them. I usually reply with oh
my ... is that a truncheon in your pocket -
or are you just pleased to see me. Or my I
must say you look really good, when did you
have your nose job done?
1- Their ass looks big in that trouser.
2- They havent put enough make up on.
3- You have seen that same dress worn by
another girl just 5 min ago.
4- They should start going back to the gym.
5- Their BF or Husband made a move on you.
Trust me, they works, try it and let me know
how you get on ;-)
However I think it's important for partners
to feel they can be honest and blunt with
each other, even if the truth is sometimes
unpleasant. A truthful relationship is
usually also the healhiest and most
fulfilling type of relationship. Telling
someone whatever sounds sweet is not the way
to go.
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