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would u class this as cheating

 
jludvig
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 20:25:22
Sorry just wondering

Anyway mines sortof a long story so bear
with
me. Ive known my guyfriend for over a yr
think weve been close friends but ive felt
its becoming more but i wont act as hes got
a
gf


The past couple of mths hes been acting
different towards me talking to me longer on
[censored] instead of half an hr it would be
over an hour each evening being a bit more
cheeky/naughty with me lets just say saying
stuff u shouldnt say if u got a gf yet hes
sweet and nice too, I told him bout what hes
been saying and he says he knows he shouldnt
but cant help it.

hes been more flirty with me more touchy and
forever paying me compliments.



I was a bit worried when he left 4 wks ago
to
start another job that i wouldnt see him as
he said he would have to settle before
meeting up yet i saw him a wk after he
started for coffee which he was being a bit
more flirty. He was staring i told him to
stop he was like youre lucky im staring at
your face.

The second time we arranged something he
couldnt make it and said it would be while
before we met up again that went to oh we
can
meet in an evening to do u want to meet me
after work which i did. He showed me where
his new job was and treated me to a meal. It
felt like a date to be honest.

On the way home on the train he kept trying
to cutch into me which i tried to ignore as
hes got a gf but when i was tired he cuddled
me into him and we sat t here for a while
just hugging. He kept finding excuses to
touch me like touching my hand to see how
cold i was. Hes been texting me as well
which
is wierd as he never used to before its
ussualy him asking how i am but hes texting
me.

do your guyfriends act this way i dont know
if hes just flirting or what and its
seriously confusing me
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
luckylips1
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 20:28:25
hes definitely flirting with you
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
web_master
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 20:31:00
I wouldn't say it is cheating.....

But by what you say....

He is after getting in your knickers....

And giving you a right good front buming..
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 20:36:55


I think youve posted a few of these about the
same thing before

The guy sounds like he's playing with you-a
power game

If I were you I would front him

''Look mate do you want to go out with me?''

Its likely he will act awkward and end his
game
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
amylou96
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 22:04:39
I agree with Cathy.Just ask him out
right.Sounds to me like he wants more from
you than just friendship,he clearly aint that
into his girlfriend,either that or he's just
a player looking for what he can get.He is
defo upto something as i have close male
friends and they do NOT act this way.
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
the_gate_keeper
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 22:07:47
no one agrees with cathy
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
jludvig
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 22:18:05
Really your guy friends dont act like that.
Friends say dont take him seriously but some
of the stuff hes been saying has been pretty
suggestive and blatently obvious
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
jludvig
Date: 2008-11-14
Time: 22:26:19
what u mean playig games we have been mates
long before this crap came up
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Re: would u class this as cheating
 
cathyb_
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-11-15
Time: 16:50:37

I mean he's leading you on to either boost up
his sad lil ego or gets a kick out of keeping
you wondering

Dont kid yourself he doesnt realise how
obsessed you are with him

You need to stop living in a fantasy


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