i dont want for anybody to ask me out or
anything but i need some advice about getting
a boyfriend. I try not to flirt too much or
be to pushy or clingy, i try to be myself and
i always look good, but boys never seem to
give me a second glance. when they abandan me
after talking to me for about 30 seconds or
they are just using me. i've only ever had
one good man in my life! (arpart from my
dad)!
what am i doing wrong??
Theres nothing wrong with you.
Don't let it dent your confidence and get you
down.
You're still young and have plenty of time to
work things out...and heed Cathys advice.
bless hunny, Im sure they like you, but maybe
your baby and the one on the way scares men
off a little, maybe you should think of them
now and give men a break for a while
You look to me like someone who has painted
on this whole sort of 'pop princess barbie
girl pink sparkle glitter' persona for
yourself, and no guy worth knowing would ever
find you attractive for it.
Stop trying to be cool and start being YOU!
Then you'll find what you're looking for x
I was a little girl, I prefered to be out
climbing trees and making camps, when mum got
me a barbie for Christmas (trying to make me
all girly), I got my brothers action men,
made a camp fire and burnt the plastic barbie
like a witch.... gawd being a wild child was
cool
I have found that when you stop thinking of
finding a man completely,one comes along.I
agree with what most have said and that is
just concentrate on you,you are only young.If
you meet some1 and it dont work out then its
just not meant to be but trust me,when your
not looking he WILL come along when you least
expect it.Poppy gave some sound advice.If you
really really cant wait then msg
Futuregunners,he's cute and seems to like
you.lol
It sounds to me that you are very scared or
being alone, and are feeling very lonely.
Don't you have friends that you can surround
yourself with?
Spend some time being yourself, with
yourself.
If you stop seeing it as a negative thing,
then you will find it to be quite liberating,
rewarding and fun
(and yes, i do speak from experience!)
You are very young (a child with children
some might say), what you need is support,
not a complication.
Good luck with everything. xx
pmsl....you didn't tell her what she wanted
to hear. she asks for advice then doesn't
like what she hears lol........
wonder what the problem is there?????????
Well said Lil red gem...What you need is
support not a complication...She is also
right when she says that once you stop
thinking of it as a negative thing it does
actually become quite liberating to be on
your own and in a sense'Free'!And i am
talking from experience too.Just be on your
own with your lil one's,learn to love
yourself properly,rely on only you and one
day you will get what your heart desires.Good
things come to those who wait....
your bad grumpy 
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