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killahbyte
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:15:03
The vows in particular, the traditional under
the eyes of god stuff

"do you promise to have and to hold, through
sickness and in health, as long as you both
shall live?"

"til death do us part"


under the eyes of GOD (therefore suggesting
there is a god, and there is a heaven, and
therefore an afterlife)

You dont get to spend eternity with your one
true love?

granted one life time may be plenty. but what
if it isnt?



random thoughts
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Re: Marriage
 
moijo1
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:16:36
head ache

takes some thinking about really
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Re: Marriage
 
moijo1
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:18:14
ok thought .......your inlove with someone
means supposedly your souls hearts and minds
are as one.......so your soul supposedly
leaves your body 'the shell' when you die
sooooooooooo...... your souls will always be
together
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Re: Marriage
 
killahbyte
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:21:40
but it doesnt mention souls

it just says the two people separate at
death, so not being together after death
wouldnt that include the souls anyway..
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Re: Marriage
 
moijo1
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:32:52
depends on wether you want an answer on
marriage or a one true love?????

people marry all the time but will only have
one true love, one true love is mind heart
and souls
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Re: Marriage
 
killahbyte
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:37:42
right well..

the point was people try to marry their true
love (and it does happen sometimes)

but the wedding vows state you depart from
that love when you die, point being in the
"afterlife" you apparently lose your true
love


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Re: Marriage
 
killahbyte
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:47:56
then when you're both dead not getting to
spend eternity with them will be a relief
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Re: Marriage
 
moijo1
Date: 2008-11-16
Time: 19:50:25
lmao

aaaaaw what do i know ive never even been
married so no worries there
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Re: Marriage
 
lil_red_gem
Date: 2008-11-18
Time: 07:26:10
See, this is why i never married in a
church!!
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Re: Marriage
 
sini
Date: 2008-11-18
Time: 07:36:24
when one is committed tae marriage,
i believe it shud be fer life.
everyone has their ins and outs,
there is alwis an alternative tae divorce.
divorce is just the easy way out.

killah "point being in theafterlife you
apparently lose your true love"
there are some who believe ye continue yer
marital life in the afterlife.
"till death do us part" oh dear, how gross te
imagine sleeping with a dead person
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Re: Marriage
 
malty
Date: 2008-11-18
Time: 07:39:13
hey ink didnt know you are in germany

and i wonder why someone would want to stay
here lol
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Re: Marriage
 
lil_red_gem
Date: 2008-11-18
Time: 07:52:10
I agree with the whole 'til death do us
part', but then, i don't believe that anyone
goes into marriage thinking about divorce!
But people have their reasons for divorce -
and some of them are life-saving decisions.

But back to the religious side of things - i
wonder how many people have got married in a
church because they want the whole pomp and
ceremony part, and yet they weren't even
religious?
I know of 2 couples, and it disgusts me of
the hypocrisy of it.
Especially when you can get married just
about anywhere these days, with so many
premises being wedding licences!
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Re: Marriage
 
lil_red_gem
Date: 2008-11-18
Time: 08:02:03
Well, to me, marriage is personal to the
couple getting wed, so they should have the
ceremony of their choosing.
But if you want to get married in a church,
you should at least be religious.
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Re: Marriage
 
sini
Date: 2008-11-18
Time: 08:09:55
i am sceptically religious, but i am planning
on a white wedding in a church.
but it will only be a small reception
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Re: Marriage
 
lil_red_gem
Date: 2008-11-18
Time: 08:15:03
Sini, that's better than not being religious,
but turning up to church in the run up just
to get married there.

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Re: Marriage
 
steamy1966
Date: 2008-11-23
Time: 23:57:55
when i got married,it was in a church before
the eyes of god.i am religious and do believe
in god,17 years later my wife tells me she,s
leaving me for another man and left so i
divorced her(for some reason she refused to
divorce me).i vowed before god that i would
love,honnour till we both die,so who broke
the vow(her for leaving me? or me for getting
the divorce?)
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Re: Marriage
 
lil_red_gem
Date: 2008-11-24
Time: 07:12:13
She broke the vow - and she probably knows
how you feel about divorce, and that's why
she got you to do it - the final kick in the
teeth, so to speak.
Don't beat yourself up over it - she ended
the marriage - you just gave her what she
wanted. I'd say that that was sacrificial
because of your love for her.
There are times in our lives that we go
against what we believe - it doesn't make us
any better or worse of a person - it just
proves that we are only human.
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Re: Marriage
 
xxxpoppyxxx
Status: Validator
Date: 2008-11-24
Time: 09:51:06
Getting married in church i wouldnt want,and
i wouldnt want a fuss,marriage vows i would
change ,i dont agree with honour and obey .
lol obey by husband lol nee chance,he would
be doing what he was told.
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Re: Marriage
 
apapa
Date: 2008-11-25
Time: 13:50:45
i interpret it as when one of you dies then
thats the till death do us part, cos u
probably wont die on the same day
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Re: Marriage
 
killahbyte
Status: Moderator
Date: 2008-11-25
Time: 14:35:33
Apapa, what about that mexican man who died
and his coffin killed his wife on its way to
be buried
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Re: Marriage
 
apapa
Date: 2008-11-25
Time: 19:03:35
aye carumba.
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Re: Marriage
 
socrates
Date: 2008-11-25
Time: 19:30:37
Church vows are just like a football
contract, they are sincere at the time but
sincerity fades with time and other offers -
just look at Harry Redknapp.
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Re: Marriage
 
ladygenie
Date: 2008-11-25
Time: 19:40:04
For as long as you both shall live.....

One partner dies, the other is then left on
their own, can no longer have or hold...until
they pass over and are reunited with their
loved one again.
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Re: Marriage
 
socrates
Date: 2008-11-25
Time: 19:43:54
So this means Harry Redknapp will rejoin
Portsmouth when he shuffles off his heavenly
'footballing boots'?
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