Whether male or female, if a person decides
to stray, it is always the person who is in a
relationships responsibility to accept blame.
Further more, they should be up front to give
the other person the choice as to whether or
not they become involved/sleep with someone
who is already in a relationship.
either gender can be blamed because what ever
gender it is it is wrong to have a secret
rlationship if you already are in a
relationship. you have to be a lowlife to
actually agree to a affair.
Yes, unfortunately there are some low people
out there, but there are also those that
would never have gotten involved if they knew
the truth, so have been duped and lied to -
my wife run off wit a man she only met three
weeks befor , i belive it was my fault i
could not meet her sexual needs ,
i am on anty depresant ,
i have several members of my family ill . one
dies only two weeks ago.
it took her three days to post it on uk camp
site,that was a humilating and degradig thing
to see, what she had wrote
now after about 6 weeks she is trying to
blame me for her choice ,giving me threats
and abuse.
why doe's she do this
Pending, some people can never accept
responsibility for anything - their
decisions, their lives, their happiness.
And for someone to say that they strayed
because they weren't happy/fulfilled - well
anything really, is again, to deny
responsibility.
If you are committed/love someone, then you
will put your efforts into bringing your
relationship to the best it can be at all
times.
To look elsewhere is not only a cop-out, but
it is a sign that a person is looking for
someone else to make their happiness, as they
are unable to do it for themselves.
Don't blame yourself mate - she had a choice,
no-one held a gun to her head.
Your worth more than being cheated on and
humiliated.
I know that you probably don't think this
right now, but she is obviously not right for
you, and she has done you a favour.
She couldn't love you, the way you wanted to
be loved.
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